My other....Names..Hushhh :P

We all have nick names, and maybe some of us have more than one nick name ..
Me for example have a couple of nick names! Given to me by different family members and also friends! Some have a certain meaning or reason for assigning them to me and others don't seem to have a strong reason but maybe that's cog I really still don't know why they were assigned to me!

Anywayz, Here are my famous mostly used nick names and who uses them with me!

My Mum: Pari ~
------> This is a common nick name for anyone who has my name and speaks blushi!--it actually means 7oriya or angel! This is also my first nick name that i remebr and it was used alot when i was a kid,,even my sisters at school used to call me with that nick name and i used to feel so embaressed saying plz dont call me with this nick name at school! but deep down i always loved this nick name :)

My Dad: he calls me: Parol!
-------> This is really un-usual and my most favorite nick name -- it doesn't have any meaning other than uses same letters as with the above common nick name but like dad added his touch which if u speak blushi know that it is much more full of love than the previous nick --a bit personalized nick just for me from papa :)

My Sis: Fadda
-------> i don't remember she called me with my full name ever unless she was talking to some1 else about me or sth. She created this nick name as a shortcut for my name and my best friend liked it so much that she too calls me with same nick name! :)

My Bro: Pari-Jan!
-------> but nowadays and after i got married i don't hear this a lot from him,,maybe coz i don't see him much ,, or he doesn't come for me ,,comes and talks to dad n goes! ,,

My School time friends (2 of them only): Gave me nick name: BOSS!
-------> And neva actually used it! thu i was like :(( ,, we were this small team of 3 girls, and we said lets give ourselves nick names,, so one was tutifruiti, another was cheecko ,, and me was BOSS! i was like naaaaaaaaaaaaa ,, they said yaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ,, and that was it! so this is the nick name which i didn't like at all heheeh :P

My Uni-friends: Faroo!
-------> The same style nick name was given to each one of us,, each nick name was related to her name ,, it was like using fist some letters of the name and adding ooooo at the end! This is the most famous name! And it used a lot till date between us,,The Uni friends :)

My Chat friend: Dil
-------> I have one chat friend who gave me this nick name,, i think i was happy to get this nick from some1 not my dad or mum,, it means Heart in Urdu ,, and this friend thought of me as a very good supporting friend n gave me this nick name,, The reason he assigned me a nick name was that at that time he didn't know what was my real name and i was like very cautious about giving any personal details so he wanted to call me with sth so he gave me this nick name, short n sweet :)

My Love: now here we have quite some but here comes the most famous:
- Jennol <-- like short cut for a gurl or like a sweet way of saying gurl FerreroRoche!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ---> this is the most FUNNY nick i eva got heheheh and also the one which i got most annoyed from coz it was given to me by my husboo,, i was like what the hack, u should give me a sweeter much nicer nick name and not like such a choco name like u r making fun of my original name,, --offcourse i didn't tell him how i felt towards this nick name first couple of times he called me but ultimately i did tell him ehhehe --
He was like: lolling ,, i remember we were in car when i first showed him that i am annoyed ,, so he was like lolling and double Checking really u don't like it --Grrrrrrrrrrrrr-- he went on: its so sweeeeet like da chocoo itself,, and its like close to ur name! --Grrrrrrrr-- i was like: donno give me another nick name,,
Then donno we cut the topic or sth i don't remember now,, but i remember after that and one day when we were ein our room he was like ok what about this nick name: Fredrek! WHAT THE F******** hehehehheheheh i was like lolinggggggggggg and i knew he was doing it on purpose ,, so i was like nO oOoOO
and really i started liking FerreroRoche Nick! I even felt hurt to change this nick name coz it was such an Original Nick from my husbooooo! heheheheh

And as u can see from my blog Nick name! i am now FerreroRocheeeeeeeeeee hehehhehe not just infront of my husboo but infront of whole wide Blog netwrok heheheh
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To my friend 'M': now u know the secret behind my nick name ;)

A Trip To Nature -- a Trip to Nakhal

Long time ,, or maybe first time that I went to a location where families go with their kids, sitting mats, lunch, tea, fruits, etc only to have a day out! A picnic ..

I went to Nakhal with my small family; my husbo and son. Suddenly my husband said yallah lets go for a drive to Nakhal and let baby enjoy the beauty of the nature.. We drove out of ma and head towards Barka.. around 50 or 60 km away we reached to our destination! Nakhal; a very earthy feeling I felt when we drove along the narrow path between locals farms and homes.. So quite..So natural..So peaceful!

we reached to the location itself! Although it was a small area but really n truly it was so amazing to see how can the beauty of pure nature without any modernization etc make u feel sooooo much like aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I wanna be here!

kids playing, mothers sitting with their afternoon tea/coffee..Families scattered sitting in the shades of this date palm or that .. Couples playing scards while waiting for their barbecue to be ready to hum hum .. Grand paa's playing with their grand sons/daughters .. Really and truly a fresh feeling u get ..Tourists passing by..Goats climbing the mountains! ..Kids enjoying the so clear water passing over so clean stones..

The funny part was watching kids of ages 7 to 9 trying to catch some small tiny winy fishes that swim in that water, using plastic bag and then shifting the sad fishes to drinking bottles with some water in and feeling so happy n proud!

I was watching all this and more inside our car :( .. Simply coz my son fall asleep just as when we reached on location! So i didnt want to wake him up, ultimately I woke him up to enjoy the water coz I knew he wud loveeee it.. And he did ! He didn't want to get out of water once he put his tiny legs in smoothly running water ..

Now I know how our beautiful country has wonderful scenarios that we Neva saw .. Really nth like simple clean nature ..

Love You Oman :) ..

My Husband's weiredoo habitssss!!

Ok how many weired habits u found out about ur second half after u got married?!
Interesting question isnt it!

For sure before marrige we all try and show teh best in us ifnront of teh other half! But Boooof once u get married then he3 he3 the true face with big lion like teeth shows up ,,hehehe kidding hehe,, wt i mean to say is some hidden habits get uncovered ;)

Same happened with me but thank god all such habits are like humm not that shocking! and now after being married for 2 years i can say they are not clashing with his personality or attitude! i mean ok they were not clear to me b4 marrige but its not coz he coevered them up but coz hummm maybe no reason/situation/chance for such a thing to show up!

Anywayz, here are some of these weiredest habits
1 - When sleeping, khala9 going to sleeeeeeep he doesnt like being touched ..when i like holding his hand or at least his smallest finger .. so i do that for sometime n then i turn to the other side and only then he can sleep hehehe

2 - i thought men usually are the ones who like palying with thier wive's hair but in my case its the other way around,, he likes me to pass my fingers in his hair when he is sleeping and if i say 7arammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm u too hold my hand then i feel his arm is like a robot arm ; he doesnt even know how to be relaxed n hold my hand,, his hand or arm will be in a position liek an angl ..so not comfortable that i feel guilty n loling and say ok enough relax heheheheh

3 – He likes eating those toasted seeds,, ‘7ab’ and he keeps the skin or that thingi covering the seed in his jalabiya pocket! If he is walking .. same thing with toothpicks ! after breaking them into small pieces! Now seed shells are a bit ok but toothpick are just yukkkkkkkk,, and his excuse is : I save in cleaning the environment! Not throwing things here n there :P

Some other habits later on ;)

a small note to my husboo..i love u

I Love my Husband :)
This is not something new i just found out! I know that but i just feel like saying it loud n loud n loud..
What i love most about him is the fact that when i get mad or just loose it (not that i go extreme and get scary and all), he will just keep quite! He will get :( but then just coz its me! he tries his best to just calm down ..

I Love him coz he never interferes between my family and me whenever we disagree (fight in case of my sis) although we all live in same house and its easy to get annoyed .. just like me when i get annoyed from my sis and show it to her when she does sth disrespecting (in my openion) towards my parents!

I Love him coz he always encourgaes me to do and be best in my work! Alot of guys feel uncomfortable when their wives are better off in terms of job or financially.. But mine says if not both of us then at least u should be the best and reach to top coz at the end it will reflect on our small family and it is not just u ..

I Love him coz of alot things but those were some of the elements which i feel i owe him for ..

7amoodi i owe u for ur support, understanding, respect, and mainly LOVE.

Thank You for choosing me to be the ONE for u
as i never thought i could be someone who is thought of as the one to spend the life time with for someone as nice , well behaved, clean heart and soul like u my jan :)

The No. 7 with an Exception :P

Ok Gurl here it comes just for u ,, ma lovely friend ;)

Ten Things I Plan To Do:
1 - Buy a car for my father
2 - Control my temper to the extreme and never ever disrespect my parents and husband no matter what
3 - Raise my son and future kids inshallah in the bestest way i can. Give them best of education I can.
4 - Build a home of my own where my husband, kids, and myself can cook and have a barbecue day in our home garden wooooooooooooooooo.
5 - Start a business of my own.
6 - Read Quran more often and Be more faithful and concentrated in my prayers
8 - Reduce the tension between me and sis as much as i can. I love her so much and i don't have any other sibling other than her but the on and off tension n fights just kill the good time we can have instead.
9 - Help my friends specially one of them much more than what I am doing now
10 - Visit UK again with Husboo and have nice vacations every year!!! a dreammmm!

Seven Things I Can Do:
1 - Just keep quite!
2 - Cheer up people!
3 - Be optimistic and think positive
4 - DRIVE! heheheheh although not that good but i never thought i can do that! hehe
5 - Hide my feelings ( although its going away lil by lil)
6 - Listen to others
7 - dance infront of my dad ! hehehhhe all monkey movements but haay halloo who has the guts to do so infront of a very traditional dad hehehe!

Seven Things i cant do:
1 - Lie
2 - Put eye liner on my upper eye thingi ! hehe
3 - Forget!!!!
4 - wear hii hill!
5 - stop feeling guilty on small small things!
6 - just follow the trend!
7 - Cant IMAGINE living without my mother, husband, and son

Seven Things i Say Most Often:
1 - Qaraffff
2 - Ya'7ee
3 - aaahhh tired! hehehe
4 - hawooo ( meaning yaaaaaaaaaaaa??? whattttt? )
5 - 7abibiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii (to ma son)
6 - inshallah
7 - hummmmmm

Should i or Should i Not? ^_*

I have a family wedding to attend in Dubai this Wednesday..My husbo is still in that far isolated island :( and he didnt get leave to attend teh wedding.. Its his family wedding.. and my parents say not nice not to go .. at least one should go from our side.. and this one is me offcourse..

Whats the problem then?
Cant leave my son!!!!!!!! i wasnt like this b4! more than once i went with my husboo to dubai to attend such things and didnt take my son.. but then i felt better he stays with his bibi coz i would be too busy and all.. But now i see him so sad soemtimes ..coz he misses his dad alot! out of nothing he wud scream and cry baba baba baba !!!!! how heart breaking :(

And then he woudl raise his hands to me or just come to me or look at me and wont go with bibi and wajoo ( grand pa) ..also at night he wants me and sleeps in my lap or plays with me till he goes into sleep.. so i make him feel a bit better when he misses his dad alot --he is much more attached to his dad then mum; me :P --

So now how can i now leave him when he already feels bad that dad is not there!!! last night i sat and cried till 12 mid night looking at him n just thinking of going for 2 days! i didnt know i am so sad heheh!

i msgd my husbo than and told him how i feel! he said : take him with u..
But really thats not an answer.. answer is me not to go .. but going n taking him is not possible coz all will be busy and i knw really busy... unless u r kind of mother who is liek relaxed and feels 3adi ur baby cries or falls or this n that and u still talk with all the other guests there and help in work and all that ..unless u r liek that then u shud never take ur son in a place where u knw u will be too busy .. specially me will be with bride! so .. i really dont knw wt to do..

I knw what i want to do
but i dont know whether i shoudl do what i want to do ==not go
or do what my parents say ==family thingi==go n leave my son with my mama --he is already with her whole day everyday, but at least he sees me during the day and all the rest ..

Aaaaaaaaaaah ..

Wish i get a hint from god.. or like just decide sth...!

Hanoooooooooodi mama loves u tooooo much my lil freind :0)