Mama talk to me!!! Right Time for Punishing my baby?!

As part of playing with my son and making him busy with something, i give him my box of pencil colours --donno what they call it! i mean alwaan '7ashabiya-- and i sit with him while he takes these colouring pencils out and scatter them all over the room and throw this and pick that.

----Maybe one day i will write what u can do with such a tool with babies ;) ..anywayz---

So yesterday i was a bit of tired and i slept a bit and kept nunu with mama ..and i think when i was asleep they came to the room and nunu played with the colours.. So when i woke up i saw the colours all over the floor and the usual mess that nunu makes :)

later that night and when it was time for going up again to my room ,,me and nunu,, i took nunu and went to room,, i didnt clear the mess that was there when i first woke up,, so nunu got excited again seeing all these coloures scattered all over .. and he started his fun.. i sat down to pick up the colours and put them in the box after nunu got bored of them and i saw one of the colouring pencils is broken into half! Donno how that happened! but straight away i assumed it was nunu!!! ( now i realise how stupid i was to assume that without checking with mama about it!)
anywayz , as a result and only to make nunu know that this is wrong.. i called nunu and poor soul came to me..
i showed him the pencil and put an angry face on! and i was like: 'mama is angry at u and she will not talk to u' and i also hit his tiny tiny hand :( :( :( ,, --i usually do that whenever he does sth wrong like playing with power sockets, ect --

He didnt say a single thing and stood infront of me as a perfect boy admiting his mistake! really even when i hit his hand he was quite! then i turned my face the other side and gave him my back
just 2 or 3 seconds later i found his tiny soft hand tapping on my back calling ma : mama mama amma amma . Still i didnt turn and just said mama is angry at u and she will not talk to u ..

To my amazment, i found him as if he understood each single word and started tapping my back again and coming to my face and saying: mama mama ..and i could feel that he was saying:

"Mama talk to me! Dont get Mad ,, i didnt mean it! I wont do it"

His facial expression started to change,, got sad,, his tiny lips started to wave up! and i couldnt bare that ,, and felt so bad for my punishment style!and so angry at myself..i hugged so much and said sorry to him!!!

He was so happyyy and started the game all over again :)

But this made me think about whether or not its ok i punish him in such a way so that he knows whats good or bad?
or is he too young for any such treatment? Shall i let him do anything and just pull him away or take things from him whenever it is dangereous or a bad act?which means he doesnt realise that the thing is wrong , instead he will just do it and if someone took the thing then ok he wont cry else he will continue doing!

Aaaah , anywayz i think i will continue with my way ..and the feeling of guilt whenever i go in that same way too!

World Cup : Me Vs HIM!

Worl CUP!!!!!!

And they get mad coz we want to watch Oprah for an hour a day after a hard day ! They keep brining topics and u feel suddenly they got this energy to spend some 'Quality' time together! 'talk to me' ,, 'listen to me'! and all the rest! 'Why u not responding'.. 'What's so special about this what's so called Oprah'! ,.. 'this is wallaheee crap! donno how and why u like it'.. and then starts switching channels .. i scream for remote aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i get it and then its taken all over again .. and so on till this 1 hour relaxation time --which i get occasionally anywayz if and when nunu is asleep or quite-- is over and instead of having a rest .. i end up being more frustrated, tired and angry after all that : "give meeeeeeeeeeee,,quiteeeeeeeeeeeee,, plzzzzzzzzzzz,,"! and much more requests or begging!

Ok am talking about my Husband! who really does that every time i watch Oprah unless if the topic is about re-doing ur rooms or house! then, well he gets interested and actually gets involved with the show to the extent of not hearing me asking a q or sth till i have to call him by name and then he will be : ohh yaaa sorry!

All that coz i want to watch a show for only one hour a day,,when rest of day TV is his and so it the remote!

But now its a different story! and this story is not applicable to ma husboo only but to all men around world except for some who i consider 'weirdo'!

Why now?.. well coz WORLD CUP is on! now same guy or guys would want you to understand them! and just keeeep away from them when the match is on! and nope its not for one hour! its for hummmmmm well one MONTH! 24 hours a day!
Well if each day they show 3 games! each game u say 2 hours then 6 hours are gone ,,time for their work,, time to sleep eat the day is gone!
And if we 'women' dare to ask them for some Quality time then that wud be like :
- not understanding
- not caring
- not loving
- not respecting
- not and not and not!

Men are Selfish wallaheee and they will always be!

Now am thinking : ok assuming i get the one hour Oprah time without any headache or disturbance , then can i assume that i can get same thing for entire month ? 12 horus a day? or 6 hours a day? of watchign TV doing nth but TV! ? Answer is offcourse noooooooo!

But then would i feel that i have the right to tell my husboo that: ur not caring, loving etc ? Answer is: Again No! Instead i will question myself ! one month is too much ,,6 hours too much ,, yes i am guilty! But would my husboo blame himself if i tell him u r not loving not caring and all? Well in case of my husboo i think he would feel guilty but then he would continue watching it! hehehe but some men they dont even admit that they r like ignoring family or doign less than what they should do!

My husboo is not at home now and he wont be here till after 2 weeks when the world cup is reached to top 16 teams! -As he told me!- and there is no World CUp craze at our home! coz my dad is not a TV person.. Well we have another guy but he is too busy with his own goals! he cant be bothered about world cup! am talking about my lil son who is happy scoring a goal with an orange, apple, or a real ball! :)

But whats surrprisng me is that i feel and understand the excitment of my husbo! for world cup! to the extent that i keep following up with my colleague about getting the ART card or any other cheaper way of watcing World cup! i want to surrprise my husband with WORLD CUP tv available at home so that when he comes he can watch it at home comfort and dont have to go to crowded hot coffee shops or wherever else! I am even thinking to get the card b4 my husband comes so that i give it to his bros so that they can enjoy it till my husboo comes and then they can join him at our home or he can join them at their home.. ! I am surrprised that i actualy dont get angry when he calls in rush and says ok game will start in 5 mnts just called to hear u ! i totally understand and i will be like ok ok goo gooo dont miss it!

I guess we women can never be less caring , loving, understading not matter what ..
And i guess i cant ignore what he wants , i cant really take revenge :)Love u 7abibii ~

Hope Italy Wins! as my husboo supports Italy!!!!!!!!!

Fanaa, The Movie. Aamir The Attractive Actor ;)

Fanaa The Movie.. meaning same as in Arabic 'al-Fanaa' and in English meaning 'end, demolish, etc'.

After a gap of around 1 year i found a reason to go to cinema.. This time the Moive was Fanaa.. To be honest when first time eva i saw an ad about this movie in net i was like: 'ohh afta so long Kajol and Aamir r doing a movie together'.. then i bought the Audio songs for the movie and i wasn't much impressed by the songs to be honest. Then i read about the story and found that Kajol (lead actress) is playing a role of a blind lady so i was like : 'here comes again, Rani acted as a blind grl now all of them will do the same'!

Then on Friday my sis was like Fanaa is on, lets go .. we got excited and said : 'Lets do it!' Kept baby with mama and pooooooooooof we drove to Bahja cinema!

Thank god we got seats coz the hall was so packed and good seats were taken, we sat on FIRST ROW! Imagine ,, god my sis neck was so hurt hehehe but i was ok ..

Anywayz,
And then started the movie... From the first appearance of Aamir, i felt wooooooooo .. New Look,, Attractive, charismatic, cooool dude ,, all in all so like a "Wawoooooooo' type to me ;)

Aamir has been always the chocolate boy of Indian cinema.. he has a very cute face ,, but in this movie,, he has a new look with long hair ,, same hair style as Boby deol Had when he first joined the industry! --i guess i have sth with this hair style!; i find men looking very attractive even if they didnt have that much nice of a face! --

The movie went on, every scene makes u feel like STOP and get yourself lost in the move... humm i mean i found myself living the moments as if they happened to me!! so real acting by Aamir..Same time it makes u feel what will happen next ??,

The poems that both Aamir and Kajol say makes u feel like wawoooooo --god help those who depend on the translation written in the movie,, its so crappppppp--

Songs which i didnt like when hearing , sounded very soothing,,
The Blind grl that Kajol was playing looked nice with the story of the movie and wasn't just an attempt to do a 'New but copied' idea
Aamir's outfits, were really something, his grown up face and the time lines or affect of time on his face made him look much much attractive ,, at least to me .. ahem offcourse well i don't knw how my husboo will react if he finds out i say this about Aamir heheheh
well actually i knw ,, he will just get MAD!

Big part of the movie was shot in Kashmir! A heaven on Earth ,, really a heaven cant say anything more..

Anywayz,
the movie will make u entertained for entire 3 hours, every minutes every seconds.. Donno how i managed to watch Titanic 2 times in a row for 3 hours each time! but this movie made me feel like 'okkkk i want to watch it again'.. and just get lost ..

Well maybe some will get surprised that i am saying this about Fanaa coz maybe they have this thinking that i like a certain type of movies,, all light and fun fun ,, but really Fanaa has it all .. and i simply Loved it ..

Maybe coz of a gap of one year and watching this movie boosted my hummm reaction and excitement towards it but still it is one movie i would say to anyone go and watch it under my guarantee! 100%

My Rating:
Movie Story--------10/10
Direction ----------- 10/10
Aamir --------------100 /10
Kajol ---------------10/10
Cenimatogrophy----10/10

Plz give yourself a break for 3 hours and go and watch it..
Mystique grl u too go with Husboo
but humm nunu
ok u don't go

Rest all of you GOOOOOOOOOO