She said: i feel more bonded to u after getting married..

Finally she got married :) in a wedding that was more than wonderfull.. she looked beautiful and elegant .. and her husband was just as nice :) ..

to our surrprise her wedding and henna was full of ppl who attended with full happiness and who enlarged our happiness by being there .. her freinds rocked ,, they simply were the essence of the parties,, with their differnet style dances,, and i guess i rocked too in one of the dance items hehehe,, but that only coz maybe alot of the guests didnt really know themselvs how to dance like indian movies heheheh,,

Now back to my sis ..
Her life long dream came true and inshallah hopefully it proves to be a fairy tale kinda of a life and marrige.. Am talking about my lil sis .. she was always thinking that she will never meet her other half, that no one is meant to be made to be 'just for her'.. i must admit that she had alot of admirers and she also was involved with someone she thought who loved her as much as she loved him but things didnt go as expected so maybe that also made her more pestimistic and depressed..

If u read my previous posts ,, u will know the kind of relationship we share or at least i feel we share :) ..

Now to what made me write this post .. yesterday at maghrib time i saw my sis the first time that day ,, coz when i came from work she was in her room with her husboo and then i went to see my father in law and then when back i saw my sis.. she had a big smile on when she saw me .. i do get that from her from time to time,, so i was ok :)
then she grabbed my dress and started walking beside me like a baby! and i am like a mama hehehe,, i walked like 3adi or even faster then normal so that she gets the feeling that i am pulling her coz she was still holding my dress hehe,, i was joking :)
then we went to our mama room and sat on her bed,, and there she said:

' i feel more bonded to u, since i got married i feel more closer to u and i want to be more near by you'

when i heared those words, and to be honest, i was not much surrprised,, coz i did hear it from her but not the exact words but i did hear that ' i love u' kind of meaning alot frm her but then fights happen and same attitude goes on; the no respect attitude, so i was 3adi when i heared that.. i felt i should hug her or be happy or u know show some excitment but i didnt and couldnt to be honest ,, i mean i was so happy to hear that offcourse but i was not excited coz i was like yaa just words but actions say sth else!
And i said to her: "Oh yallah good but would be more nicer if u just stop fighting with me!"
i felt guilty and scared when i said that,, scared that those words woudl cause another fight! scared to be honest with her,, coz honesty with her alot of times led to fights,, but to my surrprise ,, she replied: " i will not fight with u anymore"
These words,, i have been waiting AGES and ages to hear ,, honestly ,, i wanted to hear them from her,, for so long,, i wanted to tell her stop fighting with me,, i told her that,, but always i got an argument as a reply,, for the first time in my life,, i heared a simple line ,, simple comforting answer ,, whther its gona happen or not ,, i dont care,, it just soothes my heart and cools it to just hear it from her,, to just feel for a sec that she will try ,, that she admits to something wrong,, that she accepted a word of truth from my mouth even though it was like pointing to a negative attitude of hers..
sad thing was that when i told her : dont figh twith me anymore,, i was not looking into her eyes,, coz after she said i feel more bonded ot u first time i smiled n felt awkward not to be able to u know give her the reaction she expects ,, so i immediatly acted busy with sth else and stood up and my back was facing her,, so when i said just dont fight anymore with me ,, i was saying it without lookign at her,, and hence i couldnt see her eyes when she said i wont fight anymore,, with u ,,
aaaaaaah i wish if i was lookign at her eyes that moment,, that exact moment,, i have been waiting for this ,, and finally i heared it ,,
i was so happy after that ,, and so full of energy ,,

then we went ahead choosign the outfits for her honey moon trip ,,she tried each n every one of them n i was giving her my view of whther to take it or not,, she gained some weight so alot of tops were tight a bit ,, i brough tsome of my skirts and tops and we decided on all outfits,, on what she would wear on day of travel (tomorrow inshallah )

I was so excited ,, and i am still excited that she is going for her honey moon trip
coz i knw how wonderfull its gona be inshallah ,, n inshallah thy come back safe n full of happiness,,

am happy :)

Shut Up Man!

My 2 year old cute lil angel.. my son, said that yesterday!

My husband is still in that isolated island called m9airah! qaraf wallah.. so i was talking to him on Phone,, and i called my son to talk to his papa.. he talked abit ,, telling him about his ball! (its an ugly ball but a real one which is not getting flat and has holes here and there and was thrown out in the 7ara and my son saw it and wanted it and my mama brought it and washed it and nunu was so happy with it! ) so he was saying: Baba goal goalllll .. and some words which only the lil one understood but we got the bottom line; he was telling his baba about his new old ball :)

Then nunu gave me the phone, and was running and suddenly we all hear his saying loud and clear: SHUT UP MANNNNNNNNNN!
we all started loling big time and my husbo was asking wt happend,,i told him hear this, and i asked nunu to say it again
Me: baba say shut up man again
Nunu: Sh--shut up maaaaaaaaaannnn

eheheh
my husbo was loling and asking how did he learn that!
i think nunu picked it up from my bro kids who talk one or 2 words as they hear in tv and who are older then ma son ..

i wasnt happy on the phrase but i was happy that mashallah he picked it up the all 3 words and knew exactly when to say it 'when people talk!' and he was saying it so clear ,,

aaaaaah i just loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee himmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

allah yebarek lee feeh ya rab and make him good human and person and just the perfect Muslim, Human, Son, Husband, Father, Brother ,, and allllllll the nicest things in this world..may i never see him in pain or sad .. aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh i just love him :)

Thank You God :) Thank you Thank You Thank You :)

OK, So I Lied ! :S

Ok so i lied! well i didnt mean to but donno how i did it! and humm nope am not proud of it ,, but i am proud of my creativity hehehe !

Ok so here comes the story..

nowadays i am so busy preparing for my sis wedding inshallah .. so now am in the stage of making henna dress for my sis ..i want to give it to her as a gift and she trusts my taste blindly! Anywayz,
yesterday i bought the material..finally.. and i had a design in my mind which i explained to the designer the day before.. the designer wnated me to get the material so that she can work on some sample bead work on same material.. so after gettign the material i went to the designer again and there i said my lie!

i dont know how it happened! i didnt mean to lie! and i am sure it was written all over my face 'LIER' when i was actually saying the lie hehehe

The material i bought was green .. green long dres,, darker shade green head scarf,, and green mixed with purple or lilac pants ,, the designer i think didnt like the colour green and was like: GOD green! why greeeeen?! and there she asked me her question the answer of which was a lie from me! ehheh

She asked me: for what is this dress?
simple question right! but i dont know why i made it complicated! well actually i know! coz those designers charge just double or triple the price as soon as they hear the word 'wedding'! and they are expensive as they are.. imagin just a simple cut n stich costs 80 rials! too much!
So here is what happened:
She: Do u have a wedding
Me: No, my sis is pregnant and i want to give her the dress as a gift ( LOL) (WHAT A LIE!!!!! ,, when i said that i was making sure not to look like i am thinking of an excuse (am sure i looked liek a lier but maybe she didnt just catch the lie! she wasnt concentrating on my face much maybe heheh)
She: Oooh ahaa
Me now thinking to myself god what a stupid lie! why i said pregnant! and why i said my sis! i have only one sis who will have to come for measurment! and then it would be so obvious that she is NOT pregnant! and also from her face also u can tell she is still a miss not a Mrs. now i was in deeeeeeeeep shit!
i kept thinking to myself what can i do to get me out of this and so here came the second lie! yaa i lied again to hide my first lie! (its true when u lie a small first lie then u have to lie 1000 times more to hide that lie!)
So i between when the designer was asking me about bead work and stuff i made myself look like i am thinking n like i am not with her! and then i was like:
Me: Ooh sorry i wasnt with u.. i was thinking whether it is better to give this dress to my pregnant sis or the one who is getting married for her henna function! see how things happen at the same time ,, now i have to give 2 gifts he he he (awain!) ,, but i think it is better if i give this dress to the one who is getting married coz i dont think the design of a belt around the west would look nice on the pregnant sis! ( THANK GOD MY DESIGN HAD A BELT STRUCTURE AROUND THE WEST ehheheheheh LUCKY MEEEEE) (Now i was proud in myself to have such a creative thinkign hehehe ,,although it was for a wrong cause! to hide a lie!)
She: Ooh in that case yaaa wont be nice for pregnant one beta for the one gettign married!
by this time we had already agreed on the price (150 rials! too much still but ok )

when i finished with the designer and i head out to my car i was feeling guilty and ashamed why i lied in such a way.. i was laughing still at my self inside ,, heheheh,,, and i couldnt resist so i called my cool friend and told her and we cracked some laughs and i felt like telling the lie to my husband and my sis ,, i think i was so sad! ehhehe to feel liek i achieved something from this lie episode! heheheheh oh well .. i wish i have the same creativity in thinking of writting some useful programs ( am a programer! susposdly! hehehe)..

Anywayz that was how my day ended yesterday :) with a humm 'white' lie! didnt harm anyone :)

There was another lie episode but this one happened long time ago ,, 7 years or 6 or 5 or 4 maybe! oh well sth like that 7 years ago i think ,, but i think for the time being this story is enough ehhehehe ..

Moral of story: Never Lie :) heheheh (look whos talking!)

take care allllll :)

A murder mistry in our neighbour hood..

Couple of weeks ago this was the hot topic of our 7ara (neighbour hood),,and it still is..

A lady who was known of her heart's beauty ,, very kidn and very sweet ,,helpful,, relegious,,always smiling for you,, never ever talking about others i mean gossiping and u know such stuff,,

she was full of life yet her life missed the essence of it,, she never had a baby.. she lived with her husband just the 2 of them,,

Suddenly we heared that she committed suicide! the news got spread so fast,,every one was talking about her,, i personally never knew her,, my mum also saw her once she says ,, never the less i was shocked to hear that a lady in our 7ara committed suicide!

Her husband was the first to see her dead body! Police was called and all i hear from people was that her husband was sooo sad n crying all the time at hospital and saying stuff like : why u left me,, i will be so alone now..

i felt so saaad,, imagined each moment they lived 2gether ,,specially since they didnt have a baby and they were middle aged people,, although am sure they missed havign a lil boy or grl but i felt a burn to know that now the couple lost one of them! he lost her! i was soo saad that day ,, kept thinking and thinking ,, of all the bad things that could happen to ME! donno why but am getting pestimistic nowadays with all these bad things happening around and all these death news we hear every now and then,, oh well

The question for the next coming days was: WHY SHE COMMITED SUICIDE?
everyone said she was a very relegious hopeful ,,full of life person! so a new possibility started to raise up! 'She might be killed! and this could be a murder case rather then a suicide one!'

little by little and day after day,, people started talking,, her body was barried i think the 2nd or 3rd day after her death,, her bros came from Bahrain and the men went to do the final procedures to barry her body..

Now people were more focused on the possibility that she might not be the one who put an end to her life.. someone else did that,, but WHO?
Police started its investigation,, neighbours were asked,,
and there came a new piece of news,, a new twist,,
now the killer or possible killer was identified to be not anyone else but of her 'loving' husband!!!

when i heared this i was like O_O ,, i remembered how they first said that he was crying for her! now i wanted to know more about this case,, first i was just sad for her,, sad for the fact she died!
but now i was angry! still sad but ANGRY,

Now people started to talk and lil by lil new scenes came to the picture,,

The day she was killed, i would say killed beause i think she was killed! ,, anywayz the day she was killed, her husband invited some of her family to come for dinner at his house,, those people actually came from anthoer country using a visit visa just to visit their families in Oman,, so those guests were not Omanies.. anywayz,,
When the guests came ,, they ran the bell but no one opened,, so they helpd themselves ( i hate it when they do this) and they got into the guests room and started watching tv (they were 2 people) ,,they didnt knock or call for anythng ,, and they were just watchign TV..

Later ,,maybe aroun sunset time or i donno after maghrib prayers,, the husband came with bread in his hand.. he saw the guests n welcomes them and asked them if they were served anythng ,, the guests told him that they knocked the door but no one opened the door and then they didnt go any further ,, then the husband asked them if they saw his wife, thier relative and they said no we didnt see her since we came,,
at this point the husband made a move to his room,, he tried to open the door but it was locked ,, he then went to the window ,,went outside the house n to his bedroom window and there he saw 'pretended to see for first time' his wife's body laying down on the bed!
at this point he screamed to the guests saying that she is inside the house but sleeping,, and not replyign to him,, now at this poitn i really dont know exactly what happened,, but i know ultimatly he got into teh room thinkign that no one is watchign ,, when the guests also have a move and were lookign at him just as he entered his room,,,
they saw him takign out a rope that was around her neck and throwing it under thier bed! they kept quite,,
when he screamed that she is dead they came to him ,,and he was like crying and all ,,sayign stuff why u killed urself,,
he wanted to burry her ,,
but the guests ,,her family, refused and said we want the police to get into this,, we want to know that real cause of the problem,,
when police started its investigation they found out they she was dead since the afternoon maybe,,
some ladies said that her hair was still wet,, she also had some broses in her chest and some beating marks of on her face,, one of her earings fall,, aaah poor she,,

Now new story was that he actually beat her and then tied a rope around her neck till she died then hanged her using the rope and tieying it with the fan on the ceiling,, however the rope was thin and couldnt take her body weight as she was a full lady and the rope got torned later and her body fall on the bed,, the fan was just on top of the bed..

later i heared that the husband was an alcoholic person,, also he had problems preventing having babies,, maybe he was 3aqeem ,, i mean man who cant have baby,,

at end i made my conclusion and only reason for why he would kill such a lady ,, was depression and alcohol,, although it is very clear that when he did what he did, he was fully aware of what he was doing and not under the affect of anything

Never the less he still is kept with the police ,, they are still questioning him,, no one is allowed to see him ,, and he is still denying that he killed her!

how much of what i heared and wrote above is accurate and how much is not is still something to confirm,, nothing is yet final,, thats all what i heared and based on what i made my own conclusions! i dont want to be unfair to him,, but when i remember that she was beatn, hanged to death, n her husband wanting to just burry her without any police getting into this ,, makes me just get suspecious about him ,,

The sad thing is that she called her mama who lives in another country just a day before she was killed,, and they say she cried this time when she talked ot her mama when she never cried before and was all ok normal talk ,,

her mama now is really in a bad place,, very sad

aaahhh ,, who thnks that this will happen to him/her,, to any close family, close freinds, close neighbour? no one i think,,

aaaahhh may she rest in peace ,, ameeeen ..

GULF CUP 18

Gulf Cup 18 ...

A story with a very interesting and happy start but with a sad ending :(

sorry to all Oman football team fans, including myself, if i just happen to bring up the pain again.. but i just feel that i have to write about this in ma blog and chatter about it a bit just as i did at home, outside home, at family homes, with neighbors, with friends, with colleagues, aaaaaaaah while driving , or watching TV ,, or just t my own self ,, aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh what a burn a feel in ma heart wallaheee!

to those who don't know what the hac am talking about, then here comes a short explanation:

Gulf Cup 18 (football competition) took place this year where all Arab gulf countries took place including, OMAN, Saudi, Bahrain, Qatar, kuwait, Iraq, Yemen, and the great UAE!!!

in short Oman won all its 4 matches in the first round! including the first one which was the opening match for this competition and was against UAE , the hosting country! Imagine! but OMAN won ,,

Final Match was between Oman and UAE again! and yess u guessed it right ,, or ? anywayz we lost :( ,,

Well i am not really sad coz we lost! coz HONESTLY i believe, just as a lot a lot a lot of Omani Fans do, we actually won the game but the trophy went to UAE! simply coz they bought it! yeppp they bought it! donno really why participated if this was the way they wanted to win with!! i mean to simply buy a trophy! u know what i mean naa?

Well i wont go into the details but the referee was 100% sold out to UAE! he completely ignored the 100% valid penalty which Oman team should have gottn, he also kept ignoring the amount of kicking, breaking, and injuring which our team went through by UAE team.. but am not sad about that coz at the end our player Khalifa broke the leg of one of them (very well done mann) ,, am not a bad person ,, but i am not also that nice to say: 'Ohio if thy do wrong then u dont have to do the same' ,,i would say: 'GET THEM DOWN',, at that point i really wanted them to do bad as well ,,so that those UAE get a lesson in life and in real football!

Oh well,, its all done now,, but still the pain of loosing the cup in such a way is still there..

But what makes me feel :))) is the fact that although we won the 2nd place, we actually celebrated our team the same day they arrived to the land of Oman,, i.e. 2nd day of final match,, where UAE team just copy and pasted our celebration on 3rd day after the match day! exactly same idea they took with only one difference,

Our team was honored from all our hearts with all the loveee and respect and happiness even though they won 2nd place, and as Mohd. 3abduh said in a TV interview: 'This is the first country which i see who celebrates a 2nd place with so much love and care for its team! What a spirit' :)))))))))))))) ,,am really proud of this :D

On the other hand UAE team ,,well forget about UAE :P

Aelewaa

Today 08:50 am .. when he woke up from his sleep..i thought its another call for :'Jjijji' ..instead i saw him pulling himself to sit with tiny sound of cry and then he said: 'mama Aelewaaa' !!
i kept quite with half eyes open to see his next action..
his voice or cry got a little bit higher and again: 'mama Aelewaa'
at this point A big smile was on my face! thinking my lil angel! did u dream of Aelewaa or what? hehehe
How come first thing u want is Aelewaa instead of Jijji ?
Aelewaa is 7alawaa (in arabic) = Sweet or candy (in english) :)

the scene finished with me trying to convince him that there is no Alewaa now,,maybe later .. but what convinced him ultimatly is his bottle of milk ,, so he went back to his usual: "mama Jjijji :)"

It coools my heart to hear his voice at night 2 times or 3 times saying: mama jijji :)..

May god bless u, guide u ,,give u health, wealth, happiness, and make u follow god's path always,,
Ameeen,, thummaa Ameeeen

Love u my son ..

GITEX 2006

Am feeling a bit pissed of at my collegue! We all were supposed to go to GITEX 2006 in Dubai and we all agreed on the time table; when who goes and who should be available at work. Today this colleage decides that he will not come to work! when as per teh schedule he is supposed to come so that me and my anothe rcolleague can go..

the guy who didnt come , didnt even bother to call to say he wont.. just kept quite and ignored our manager's calls till late in day and replied to one of our manager's calls and told him: i am still in dubai and i cant come coz i had a car accident ! :)

A BIG LIE!

he actually just left today to dubai to attend GITEX for one day and come back same day and attend work tomorrow! what can i say! SELFISH is teh word i can think of!

I didn tdo my packing! my husband and kid will come with me.. am taking my baby with me to giev my mama a break! she needs a big break specially since our maid left and all hosue work from cleanign washing cookign etc. is done by mama..

aahh,, neva mind.. i dont mind stayign n leaving late if work really demands that and if it is was really something out of our hands! but getting paid for 4 days offical visit and going to attend only one day and choose the day which u r supposed to join work as day to attend teh visit is really a pissing off scene and act.

oh well.. but u know what! I AM STILL EXCITEDDDDDDDDDD

i will do a bit of shopping for my sis .. my main target is find a wedding dress! Indian Style.. for a beautiful bride.. my sis that is :) ..

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

cee yazzzzz all when i come back :) inshallah

a simply COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL PARTYY

She is an engaged lady now :)
My sis that is, she got engaged this past Thrsday 16 Nov 06 .. wawoooooooooooooo haaa ;)

hummmmm so from where shall i start ? humm ok she wore a nice blushi purplish lilacish dress,, really nice colour and really nice makeup ,, she looked simply beautiful :)

all her freinds came, school days freinds, work colleagues, and college freinds,, all my freinds also came and i had the best time evaaaaaaaa..really and truly.. the party feeling, the left foot dancing(since we all were misrable dancers! but haay who cares hehehe)

really it was so much fun,, house was packed! literally packeD! we even had to open my mama's bed room to allow ppl to sit ,, hall, a room, my mama bed room and the room where the bride to be inshallah and all our freinds sat (upstair room) all were packed! with Ladies! Majlis was over packed with men! god n yet i just cudnt feel anythng but of fun n joy :)

when time ccame to give food then it was really a hummmmmm lets say scary expereince! hehehehhe coz ppl were too much n i was scrad that food might not be enough or so ,, specially since my freinds and all gurls were upstairs so i was worried that if we take food n head to go to upstair then ppl who r sitting right down or in groudn floor will ask us to pass them the food! hehehe this actually happened when one of our freinds wanted to take cold drinks to the gang upstair ,, she had to take teh drinks n fill in teh plate 3 times before she was able to actually take it to the gurls waiting all desprate for a can of coke, dew or pepsi hehehe,, each time this gurl head to go up, ladies down pull her down or ask her ot pass them the drink! god! one lady even was asking for chilli! qroon filfil! i was like: what the hac! thsi si a wedding! not resturant ! u ask for athcar! mu'7alal n qroon filfil?!!!!!!! hehehehehhe but then how else thy can point at u and say ur arrangements were far less then ok! :P

the groom looked happy and so did my sis ,, my husboo brought him in ,, i was so happy to see...my husboo lolll :P
mama was happy ,, the entire family,, or both the families looked very happy .. his mama is a nice lady ,, she was happy,,, also his sisters were nice to us.. :)

inshallah ya rab all our freinds and gurls who want to get married find a nice man n get married soon so that we can serve them as they did for us ,, and make rabsha n jawo in their parties too ,, specially my asooomee who i think is the most caring person,, i really can depend on her in anything,,

when the party ended the house was a simple MESS! we had to dust the house maybe 5 times and clean the floor with water 3 times maybe ,, wipe it n all ,,, till we got the house back into shape ,, next day :)

Now my dad says: will neva do any such parties in home! when b4 he used to say: whats thsi u want ppl to talk abotu us and say we dont have a house to celebrate in and its 3aib and all that tooooooooooooooooooo old fashion talk! now he says: FULLSTOP! all in halls n stuff so cooooooooooool man :)

My mum ,, god bless her n save her always n a day may neva come where i see my mum in pain or sad or anything ,,

i love her .. she is a person who dedicated her life to all of us! she is a real candle who burnt herslef for her daughters and husband n yet gets no respect and love that she deserves! she deserves life full of happiness , health, joy and much more

aahhh .. anywayz,,
that was our lil party :)
and now we r already palnnign for wedding inshallh
i am thinkign to compose a nice simple dance,, in which we will be 3 dancing same steps,, spcially now that i got offer from A ans Z that they will help me and will make similar dresses and will dance 2gthr
am so excited yepieeeeeeeeeeee heheh :)

MY LIL SIS ENGAGMENT PARTTY :)

Finallyy the day came :) when i see my lil sis as a bride .. inshallah al goes well for her ameen.. soon will be her engagment party..she is sooooooooo excited about it and so r we.. but offcourse not as she is.. yet she is very scared and very worried to anything that might go wrong..but inshallah nth at all will go wrong :)

We bought her dress...and both of us went to some gurls to book for makeup,,finally we decided we gona go with MAC ppl.. we even did a brova kind of a thing for her and i thoght it was really nice,, but not what i had in mind,,yet it was nice,, but when we came home mama didnt liek the eye shadow (smoky purplish) ..anywayz my sis talked to makeup artist and she asked her to put a bit lighter eyeshadow so hopefully that will be cool..

now we are waiting for my husband to come to order n arrange for food ,, as this is his area and he is good at it ..

sis tried to book for music system ,, like u know amplifiers and music players n stuff,, she asked some labaneese and they said they charge 80 rials! !!!!!!! for one day ,, just teh equipment! i thought thats tooo much really for engagmnet party but then my sis wants the music to be all aroudn the house,, all clear and loud.. i liek that too to be honest but i think 80 rials too much for now.. and its a home party inside the home so humm donno ..

inshallah on 16 Nov my sis will eb officially engaged and infront of all :) ..am soo happy for her and pray all goes well for her and she lives happily ever after ya rabbb :)

after this we r planning to go to dubai for her wedding dress shopping,, its gona be a tiry search am sure,, but a joyfull one too,, i love shopping or just crusing aroudn in dubai hehehe,,althoguh i hate teh traffic but when i remebr dubai i remebr the food and the nice service we get in their resturants,, and i feeeeel like aaaaah just for the yummiiii foood in dubai all the tirness and all the rush and traffic jam is worth it heheheh

will update u on the engagment party and also wedding dress shopping :D