Shut Up Man!

My 2 year old cute lil angel.. my son, said that yesterday!

My husband is still in that isolated island called m9airah! qaraf wallah.. so i was talking to him on Phone,, and i called my son to talk to his papa.. he talked abit ,, telling him about his ball! (its an ugly ball but a real one which is not getting flat and has holes here and there and was thrown out in the 7ara and my son saw it and wanted it and my mama brought it and washed it and nunu was so happy with it! ) so he was saying: Baba goal goalllll .. and some words which only the lil one understood but we got the bottom line; he was telling his baba about his new old ball :)

Then nunu gave me the phone, and was running and suddenly we all hear his saying loud and clear: SHUT UP MANNNNNNNNNN!
we all started loling big time and my husbo was asking wt happend,,i told him hear this, and i asked nunu to say it again
Me: baba say shut up man again
Nunu: Sh--shut up maaaaaaaaaannnn

eheheh
my husbo was loling and asking how did he learn that!
i think nunu picked it up from my bro kids who talk one or 2 words as they hear in tv and who are older then ma son ..

i wasnt happy on the phrase but i was happy that mashallah he picked it up the all 3 words and knew exactly when to say it 'when people talk!' and he was saying it so clear ,,

aaaaaah i just loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee himmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

allah yebarek lee feeh ya rab and make him good human and person and just the perfect Muslim, Human, Son, Husband, Father, Brother ,, and allllllll the nicest things in this world..may i never see him in pain or sad .. aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh i just love him :)

Thank You God :) Thank you Thank You Thank You :)

OK, So I Lied ! :S

Ok so i lied! well i didnt mean to but donno how i did it! and humm nope am not proud of it ,, but i am proud of my creativity hehehe !

Ok so here comes the story..

nowadays i am so busy preparing for my sis wedding inshallah .. so now am in the stage of making henna dress for my sis ..i want to give it to her as a gift and she trusts my taste blindly! Anywayz,
yesterday i bought the material..finally.. and i had a design in my mind which i explained to the designer the day before.. the designer wnated me to get the material so that she can work on some sample bead work on same material.. so after gettign the material i went to the designer again and there i said my lie!

i dont know how it happened! i didnt mean to lie! and i am sure it was written all over my face 'LIER' when i was actually saying the lie hehehe

The material i bought was green .. green long dres,, darker shade green head scarf,, and green mixed with purple or lilac pants ,, the designer i think didnt like the colour green and was like: GOD green! why greeeeen?! and there she asked me her question the answer of which was a lie from me! ehheh

She asked me: for what is this dress?
simple question right! but i dont know why i made it complicated! well actually i know! coz those designers charge just double or triple the price as soon as they hear the word 'wedding'! and they are expensive as they are.. imagin just a simple cut n stich costs 80 rials! too much!
So here is what happened:
She: Do u have a wedding
Me: No, my sis is pregnant and i want to give her the dress as a gift ( LOL) (WHAT A LIE!!!!! ,, when i said that i was making sure not to look like i am thinking of an excuse (am sure i looked liek a lier but maybe she didnt just catch the lie! she wasnt concentrating on my face much maybe heheh)
She: Oooh ahaa
Me now thinking to myself god what a stupid lie! why i said pregnant! and why i said my sis! i have only one sis who will have to come for measurment! and then it would be so obvious that she is NOT pregnant! and also from her face also u can tell she is still a miss not a Mrs. now i was in deeeeeeeeep shit!
i kept thinking to myself what can i do to get me out of this and so here came the second lie! yaa i lied again to hide my first lie! (its true when u lie a small first lie then u have to lie 1000 times more to hide that lie!)
So i between when the designer was asking me about bead work and stuff i made myself look like i am thinking n like i am not with her! and then i was like:
Me: Ooh sorry i wasnt with u.. i was thinking whether it is better to give this dress to my pregnant sis or the one who is getting married for her henna function! see how things happen at the same time ,, now i have to give 2 gifts he he he (awain!) ,, but i think it is better if i give this dress to the one who is getting married coz i dont think the design of a belt around the west would look nice on the pregnant sis! ( THANK GOD MY DESIGN HAD A BELT STRUCTURE AROUND THE WEST ehheheheheh LUCKY MEEEEE) (Now i was proud in myself to have such a creative thinkign hehehe ,,although it was for a wrong cause! to hide a lie!)
She: Ooh in that case yaaa wont be nice for pregnant one beta for the one gettign married!
by this time we had already agreed on the price (150 rials! too much still but ok )

when i finished with the designer and i head out to my car i was feeling guilty and ashamed why i lied in such a way.. i was laughing still at my self inside ,, heheheh,,, and i couldnt resist so i called my cool friend and told her and we cracked some laughs and i felt like telling the lie to my husband and my sis ,, i think i was so sad! ehhehe to feel liek i achieved something from this lie episode! heheheheh oh well .. i wish i have the same creativity in thinking of writting some useful programs ( am a programer! susposdly! hehehe)..

Anywayz that was how my day ended yesterday :) with a humm 'white' lie! didnt harm anyone :)

There was another lie episode but this one happened long time ago ,, 7 years or 6 or 5 or 4 maybe! oh well sth like that 7 years ago i think ,, but i think for the time being this story is enough ehhehehe ..

Moral of story: Never Lie :) heheheh (look whos talking!)

take care allllll :)

A murder mistry in our neighbour hood..

Couple of weeks ago this was the hot topic of our 7ara (neighbour hood),,and it still is..

A lady who was known of her heart's beauty ,, very kidn and very sweet ,,helpful,, relegious,,always smiling for you,, never ever talking about others i mean gossiping and u know such stuff,,

she was full of life yet her life missed the essence of it,, she never had a baby.. she lived with her husband just the 2 of them,,

Suddenly we heared that she committed suicide! the news got spread so fast,,every one was talking about her,, i personally never knew her,, my mum also saw her once she says ,, never the less i was shocked to hear that a lady in our 7ara committed suicide!

Her husband was the first to see her dead body! Police was called and all i hear from people was that her husband was sooo sad n crying all the time at hospital and saying stuff like : why u left me,, i will be so alone now..

i felt so saaad,, imagined each moment they lived 2gether ,,specially since they didnt have a baby and they were middle aged people,, although am sure they missed havign a lil boy or grl but i felt a burn to know that now the couple lost one of them! he lost her! i was soo saad that day ,, kept thinking and thinking ,, of all the bad things that could happen to ME! donno why but am getting pestimistic nowadays with all these bad things happening around and all these death news we hear every now and then,, oh well

The question for the next coming days was: WHY SHE COMMITED SUICIDE?
everyone said she was a very relegious hopeful ,,full of life person! so a new possibility started to raise up! 'She might be killed! and this could be a murder case rather then a suicide one!'

little by little and day after day,, people started talking,, her body was barried i think the 2nd or 3rd day after her death,, her bros came from Bahrain and the men went to do the final procedures to barry her body..

Now people were more focused on the possibility that she might not be the one who put an end to her life.. someone else did that,, but WHO?
Police started its investigation,, neighbours were asked,,
and there came a new piece of news,, a new twist,,
now the killer or possible killer was identified to be not anyone else but of her 'loving' husband!!!

when i heared this i was like O_O ,, i remembered how they first said that he was crying for her! now i wanted to know more about this case,, first i was just sad for her,, sad for the fact she died!
but now i was angry! still sad but ANGRY,

Now people started to talk and lil by lil new scenes came to the picture,,

The day she was killed, i would say killed beause i think she was killed! ,, anywayz the day she was killed, her husband invited some of her family to come for dinner at his house,, those people actually came from anthoer country using a visit visa just to visit their families in Oman,, so those guests were not Omanies.. anywayz,,
When the guests came ,, they ran the bell but no one opened,, so they helpd themselves ( i hate it when they do this) and they got into the guests room and started watching tv (they were 2 people) ,,they didnt knock or call for anythng ,, and they were just watchign TV..

Later ,,maybe aroun sunset time or i donno after maghrib prayers,, the husband came with bread in his hand.. he saw the guests n welcomes them and asked them if they were served anythng ,, the guests told him that they knocked the door but no one opened the door and then they didnt go any further ,, then the husband asked them if they saw his wife, thier relative and they said no we didnt see her since we came,,
at this point the husband made a move to his room,, he tried to open the door but it was locked ,, he then went to the window ,,went outside the house n to his bedroom window and there he saw 'pretended to see for first time' his wife's body laying down on the bed!
at this point he screamed to the guests saying that she is inside the house but sleeping,, and not replyign to him,, now at this poitn i really dont know exactly what happened,, but i know ultimatly he got into teh room thinkign that no one is watchign ,, when the guests also have a move and were lookign at him just as he entered his room,,,
they saw him takign out a rope that was around her neck and throwing it under thier bed! they kept quite,,
when he screamed that she is dead they came to him ,,and he was like crying and all ,,sayign stuff why u killed urself,,
he wanted to burry her ,,
but the guests ,,her family, refused and said we want the police to get into this,, we want to know that real cause of the problem,,
when police started its investigation they found out they she was dead since the afternoon maybe,,
some ladies said that her hair was still wet,, she also had some broses in her chest and some beating marks of on her face,, one of her earings fall,, aaah poor she,,

Now new story was that he actually beat her and then tied a rope around her neck till she died then hanged her using the rope and tieying it with the fan on the ceiling,, however the rope was thin and couldnt take her body weight as she was a full lady and the rope got torned later and her body fall on the bed,, the fan was just on top of the bed..

later i heared that the husband was an alcoholic person,, also he had problems preventing having babies,, maybe he was 3aqeem ,, i mean man who cant have baby,,

at end i made my conclusion and only reason for why he would kill such a lady ,, was depression and alcohol,, although it is very clear that when he did what he did, he was fully aware of what he was doing and not under the affect of anything

Never the less he still is kept with the police ,, they are still questioning him,, no one is allowed to see him ,, and he is still denying that he killed her!

how much of what i heared and wrote above is accurate and how much is not is still something to confirm,, nothing is yet final,, thats all what i heared and based on what i made my own conclusions! i dont want to be unfair to him,, but when i remember that she was beatn, hanged to death, n her husband wanting to just burry her without any police getting into this ,, makes me just get suspecious about him ,,

The sad thing is that she called her mama who lives in another country just a day before she was killed,, and they say she cried this time when she talked ot her mama when she never cried before and was all ok normal talk ,,

her mama now is really in a bad place,, very sad

aaahhh ,, who thnks that this will happen to him/her,, to any close family, close freinds, close neighbour? no one i think,,

aaaahhh may she rest in peace ,, ameeeen ..

GULF CUP 18

Gulf Cup 18 ...

A story with a very interesting and happy start but with a sad ending :(

sorry to all Oman football team fans, including myself, if i just happen to bring up the pain again.. but i just feel that i have to write about this in ma blog and chatter about it a bit just as i did at home, outside home, at family homes, with neighbors, with friends, with colleagues, aaaaaaaah while driving , or watching TV ,, or just t my own self ,, aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh what a burn a feel in ma heart wallaheee!

to those who don't know what the hac am talking about, then here comes a short explanation:

Gulf Cup 18 (football competition) took place this year where all Arab gulf countries took place including, OMAN, Saudi, Bahrain, Qatar, kuwait, Iraq, Yemen, and the great UAE!!!

in short Oman won all its 4 matches in the first round! including the first one which was the opening match for this competition and was against UAE , the hosting country! Imagine! but OMAN won ,,

Final Match was between Oman and UAE again! and yess u guessed it right ,, or ? anywayz we lost :( ,,

Well i am not really sad coz we lost! coz HONESTLY i believe, just as a lot a lot a lot of Omani Fans do, we actually won the game but the trophy went to UAE! simply coz they bought it! yeppp they bought it! donno really why participated if this was the way they wanted to win with!! i mean to simply buy a trophy! u know what i mean naa?

Well i wont go into the details but the referee was 100% sold out to UAE! he completely ignored the 100% valid penalty which Oman team should have gottn, he also kept ignoring the amount of kicking, breaking, and injuring which our team went through by UAE team.. but am not sad about that coz at the end our player Khalifa broke the leg of one of them (very well done mann) ,, am not a bad person ,, but i am not also that nice to say: 'Ohio if thy do wrong then u dont have to do the same' ,,i would say: 'GET THEM DOWN',, at that point i really wanted them to do bad as well ,,so that those UAE get a lesson in life and in real football!

Oh well,, its all done now,, but still the pain of loosing the cup in such a way is still there..

But what makes me feel :))) is the fact that although we won the 2nd place, we actually celebrated our team the same day they arrived to the land of Oman,, i.e. 2nd day of final match,, where UAE team just copy and pasted our celebration on 3rd day after the match day! exactly same idea they took with only one difference,

Our team was honored from all our hearts with all the loveee and respect and happiness even though they won 2nd place, and as Mohd. 3abduh said in a TV interview: 'This is the first country which i see who celebrates a 2nd place with so much love and care for its team! What a spirit' :)))))))))))))) ,,am really proud of this :D

On the other hand UAE team ,,well forget about UAE :P